BDSM Geschichten: Mit Spanking, Paddling und Peitschen zum großen Glück

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Sex story BDSM: My first experience with shibari—a captivating adventure

Disclaimer: User-Generated Content with Erotic Material The following story was submitted by a user and contains erotic content. It represents a personal fantasy or experience as told by the author. Tom Rocket’s explicitly distances itself from the content of this story and does not endorse or adopt any of the views or actions described. This publication […]

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Erotic Spanking: Your Comprehensive Guide to the Slap on the Butt

“Clapping” isn’t just for the audience; it’s also for spanking. The English term conceals the less charming word “beating.” Since we’re not wildly thrashing each other in a lustful frenzy, we prefer sticking with erotic spanking. This practice is now fairly widespread and provides many gay men with sensual experiences. But who is spanking actually […]

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The 7 Most Common BDSM Myths and Clichés

Where there’s a kink, there’s a myth. Today’s topic is BDSM myths. We’ve all encountered clichés and statements surrounding the topic of BDSM. “They’re constantly beating each other,” “They’re incapable of having relationships,” “There’s something wrong with their psychology.” Such statements are not only false but also unnecessary and fall into the category of „kink-shaming.“ […]

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Metaconsensus and CNC: Education on BDSM practices and responsibility

In BDSM, everything is based on the clear consent and agreement of all participants. This clearly distinguishes BDSM from violence or assault. It is of the utmost importance that every single person involved fully agrees to the actions. In the BDSM context, the abbreviation CNC is often used, which stands for „Consensual Non-Consent“.

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Ageplay – taboo-breaking fantasy or harmless role-playing game?

Ageplay in BDSM refers to roleplay in which one or more men are given or treated as a different age identity. The person can appear either older or younger than in reality. Often the play is centred on mimicking a younger age, with babies, children or teenagers being popular age groups. However, it is important to note that ageplay does not necessarily have to involve sexual aspects.

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Covering in BDSM

In the BDSM dating world, „covering“ refers to being secured by a trusted third party. In the past, „chaperones“ were traditionally used for this, but nowadays informed people who are good friends are favoured. Modern technologies such as mobile phones and clever strategies play an important role here. After all, dating problems can affect anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

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BDSM forced ejaculation – prostate & sperm milking made easy

Although the term „BDSM forced ejaculation“ may sound unpleasant or threatening to some, this BDSM practice of prostate massage is popular among BDSM enthusiasts. The aim of forced ejaculation is to elicit your lover’s hot sperm in a restrained state through BDSM forced ejaculation until it has all been extracted from you while you scream, […]

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Impact Play: Exciting strokes and their many possibilities

Have you ever thought about exciting games with spanking? Perhaps you are imagining a scene with a whip and a St Andrew’s cross. It could be that you have similar fantasies to mine. For example, you could imagine lying naked in a dungeon with your arms tied over your head with a rope while your partner decides which spanking instruments to use, such as a paddle, a flogger, a crop or simply his hand.

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Gays and beards – why gays are so into facial hair

The well-known „Have Sex with a Guy with a Moustache Day“ is celebrated on 18 November, and many gay men like to take part in it. It is worth noting that gay men often feel a strong attraction to men with beards, which has also attracted the interest of scientists. Researchers now claim to know the reasons for this preference. In this article, we look at what these reasons are and whether you absolutely need to grow a beard now.

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Tied up – Penis bondage positions

There’s hardly anything hotter than a tightly bound, hard cock lying in front of you just for you alone. The strangled skin takes on a soft blue colour and his bulging balls are ready to explode. Patience, the right equipment and a comfortable bondage position are particularly important for penis bondage. As this is an extremely sensitive area, some safety precautions must also be observed.

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The Uniform Fetish

The „uniform fetish“ refers to a sexual preference in which people become sexually aroused when they see people in uniforms. Uniforms are specialised items of clothing that are often used to present a common and representative appearance in public. They symbolise the role or affiliation of the wearer to a particular group or profession. From police officers wielding intimidating batons to doctors performing rectal exams, many gay men have enjoyed the sight of men in uniform for generations.

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Everything you need to know about the emotional BDSM drop

In BDSM, a „drop“ or „crash“ can occur after an intense session, in which a person experiences negative emotional or physical effects. There are two main forms of drop: the sub drop for the submissive person and the dom drop for the dominant part. It is important to deal with a drop appropriately to ensure the health and well-being of everyone involved.

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Safety Philosophy TPE – what does this mean in the BDSM world?

In BDSM, which stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism, there are various practices, guiding philosophies and types of relationships. One of these is Total Power Exchange, also known as TPE. TPE refers to a type of power transfer that is often used in D/s (dominance and submission) or M/s (master and serf) relationships. This article will tell you everything you need to know about it.

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Bondage positions for beginners: Awesome tips for gentle bondage play

Imagine your partner helplessly tied up with his arse cheeks spread. The possibilities for pampering, tormenting and stimulating him are endless. The bondage positions offer plenty of room for creativity. Bondage is not only a highlight for BDSM fans, but also a special option for gentle gays. But what is actually so special about BDSM?

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Safety Philosophy RACK – what does that mean in the BDSM world?

BDSM is about more than just letters. There are various concepts designed to ensure that everyone involved has fun and no one is harmed. Over time, the BDSM community has developed different guiding philosophies. There is no fixed number, as different groups and individuals may have their own principles and values. Nevertheless, there are well-known guiding philosophies that are often discussed in the BDSM context.

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Safety Philosophy SSC – what does this mean in the BDSM world?

There is more to BDSM than just letters and there are good reasons for this. There are guiding philosophies that have been developed by the BDSM community to ensure that no one is harmed in the game and that everyone has fun. There is no exact number, as different groups and individuals may have their own principles and values. However, there are widespread and recognised guiding philosophies that are often discussed in the BDSM context.

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The role of the BDSM slave: lust, submission and surrender

BDSM has been making its way into more and more bedrooms since the sexy adventures of Mr Grey. And for us gays, too, it has become a fetish that is anything but swept under the carpet. On the contrary: thanks to the right forums and partners, those who are into it can now really live it out – both in bed and in everyday life; as a BDSM slave or master.

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BDSM: What does submission mean?

The term submission comes from the English, with various meanings including „presentation“, „delivery“, „sending in“, „application“, „registration“ and „submission“. In the BDSM context, submission refers to the voluntary giving up of control to one or more persons. Together with sadism, submission forms the „S“ in BDSM and is an umbrella term for relinquishing control, trusting someone else and/or submission.

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Safeword: How to use it correctly during BDSM sex

Safeword: The safety measure for sexual encounters and BDSM! Learn more about the importance and use of a safeword to keep sessions or relationships safe at all times. Gain the knowledge to enjoy playful and exciting experiences with your partner while staying safe and protected at all times. Find out now how to use a safeword to ensure a safe and pleasurable sexual journey of discovery!

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BDSM: What is bondage and what do I have to watch out for when tying up!

Bondage is an aspect of BDSM where a person is restrained in some way to restrict their freedom of movement. These bondage games can include various psychological elements, such as obedience bondage, where a person assumes a certain position after receiving a command from their dominant partner, without the use of physical restraints.

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Power imbalance in BDSM – Do I prefer to be submissive or the master?

Learn all about the essential feature of BDSM – the power imbalance! This concept is about one person having control over one or more others. It is at the core of BDSM and distinguishes it from general fetishes and kinks. Discover the different forms of power imbalance and how it plays a role in relationships. We explain to you exactly what power means and how it is applied in BDSM activities. Dive into the world of BDSM now!

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Latex – What you need to know about this second skin sex fetish!

Discover the fascinating latex fetish and experience a world full of sensuality and aesthetics. Immerse yourself in the tight and elastic material that emphasises the contours of the body and enables an exciting game of touch and sensitivity. Find out more about the many uses of latex clothing and discover a new dimension of eroticism. Enjoy the sensual feeling of latex on your skin and experience the special flair of the latex fetish.

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